A Day in the Life

Carafun, life 2 Comments

Sometimes it’s fun to step behind the curtain and see what life is really like in Oz — err — Putman mayhem. It also helps everyone to see just how insanely normal the life of this writing mom is.  7 a.m. Wake up thanks to the 2 y.o., but played possum as much as possible until 8. Not easy with …

Distractions R Us: Three things to do when life distracts

Caralife, writing life 1 Comment

I’m in the middle of line edits for Shadowed by Grace. As often happens, life has thrown a few curveballs my way during this crunch time. Maybe it’s because my husband’s traveled, I’ve had three finals to grade and classes to wrap  up, and homeschooling to fill my days. Maybe it’s bad news that filled my head. What doesn’t change …

Living with No Regrets

CaraGrief/Miscarriage, life 1 Comment

Since January 27, my grandfather and uncle died…exactly one week apart. It’s one reason I haven’t posted as consistently as usual. My grandma doesn’t have wifi on the farm, and it was important to spend time with her. One theme that kept ringing through as we (my parents, siblings, cousins, extended family) walked through this dark time was that we …

A Great American & the Brandenburg Gate

Carafreedom, Germany, life 2 Comments

When we were in Germany, the place I had my pinch me moment was the Brandenberg Gate. In no small part that was because of the speech Ronald Reagan made in 1987 at that spot. I went to college while the wall was collapsing. I thought I would get a Ph.D. in international relations with an emphasis on the former …

How Important is Family?

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Shucking Corn with Grandma This week my kids and I made the trek to Nebraska to visit family. Anytime we make the trip it is a drive with a capital D. It takes 14 hours to get from our home in Indiana to North Platte, Nebraska, where my parents, siblings, and their families live. To my kids, it’s a time …

What Makes a Job Great

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Watching the Olympics got me thinking about my favorite job in college. Back during the 1992 Olympics I worked for the smallest NBC affiliate. It was a great job for someone who loved journalism and thought that was where her future lay (there’s a reason my first contemporary  heroine was a tv reporter). That was an amazing time to work …

Me? A Swagger Wagon Mama?

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I honestly never thought this day would come. I put it off until my oldest got too tall to climb into the backseat of our Chrysler Pacifica. I LOVED that vehicle. I put off this day until I got tired of not being able to take other kids with us to events. Until I got tired of paying for rental …

Exercise: I think I can, I think I can

Caralife 1 Comment

I don’t know about you, but I often have grandiose dreams about the exercise goals I can accomplish. Then reality sets in and I have to acknowledge I am a mother of four – two of whom are small. And I don’t have a gym membership. Even so, physical fitness is important to me. When I don’t find a way …